Author: by Mariia Shevchenko, CEO at Amy

Choosing between self-coaching and working with a career coach is like choosing to fly solo or stay under someone’s wing. The first way stands for autonomy and flexibility. The second one means relying on the experience and support of a professional, especially when you lack time for self-management. After all, you may combine the two to gain diverse insights. 

How can you know what works best for you? We will give tips in this article so you can pick your option. And we will start with a self-coaching approach. 

Becoming your own career coach

Career self-coaching exists to self-reflect on your career path and set goals with free instruments available. Self-coaching instruments usually go in in the form of exercises to practice.

To understand if career self-coaching is a good fit for you, ask yourself whether you can navigate self-reflection questions, goal setting, and motivation for changes on your own.

Benefits of career self-coaching 

Self-coaching empowers to:

• Take full control over your career without external influence 
• Strengthen your self-awareness to make decisions with confidence
• Cultivate self-development while looking at the skills you wish to master and the expertise you wish to build

Key self-coaching practices 

You might hit a point in your career where you are not sure what is next and need strategies to manage the unknown. You aim to balance personal fulfillment with professional growth or decide which path aligns best with your long-term goals.

Picture Nick. Nick is in his 30s, leading a team in a software company. While he is in a position of authority, he craves more—more impact, more fulfillment, and more effective use of his time. Despite Nick’s management opportunities, he misses direct involvement in the product cycle and cannot change the situation within the company. Nick is a project manager, not a product manager. He’s not quite satisfied, but thoughts about a new job bring uncertainty. 

What if he makes the wrong decision and ends up struggling financially? Why isn’t he getting better results in a new job search? Why does he feel stuck and unsure of himself despite his accomplishments? 

Nick’s story echoes the experiences of other professionals worldwide. It may even be your case. So, where can you start?

Self-assessment: reflect, realize, and evaluate 

1. Write down or type your interests, needs, and values. 
2. Analyze your work format: what your perfect workday looks like, what you enjoy most about your current role or job, and what drains your energy. 
3. Think about your skills, mainly strengths and weaknesses. SWOT analysis (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats) is a functional approach to explore your superpowers:

• Strengths: What do you excel at? For Nick, it is technical knowledge.
• Weaknesses: Where do you struggle? Nick needs strategic influence in his current position.
• Opportunities: What external options could help? Are there leadership opportunities in other companies? What are the open vacancies Nick can apply for?
• Threats: What challenges may happen? This could be fear of financial instability.

The most valuable insights come from understanding where you feel your impact is missing and what changes to your work environment could improve this.

Goal setting: draft your first career plan with goals and information from self-assessment

Define short-term and long-term goals to have a vision for today and the future. Include a goal, timeline, and how you will measure success. Break a goal into smaller and more manageable tasks for easier perception and to beat procrastination. 

In a new position, Nick can become more involved in strategic meetings or leading projects closely tied to a product’s core. Instead of generic intentions like “I want more impact,” Nick should aim for specific results. For example:

1. Short-term goal: Start contributing to new projects that directly affect the product’s end result within the next six months. The success indicator: contributing to the monthly release of a product.
2. Long-term goal: Fully transition into a career with more control over product strategy and development tasks within two years. The success indicator: taking the head of the product role.

Stepping out of your comfort zone: networking and extra activities

Engaging in new activities or meeting new people can take you out of your comfort zone and help you discover new sides of yourself. In Nicks’s situation, new activities may be around developing a growth mindset. Nick feels demotivated by difficulties, such as not landing a new job or failing to shift into a more impactful role immediately. Self-coaching will boost resilience through a growth mindset. This means viewing failures as learning opportunities rather than barriers.

An external feedback is usually a missing piece in self-coaching. If you can ask friends, family, or colleagues for feedback about your behavior, grab the opportunity. For example, conversations with industry leaders provide insights Nick might not learn on his own, specifically about career transition moves.

“In the absence of the ability to pull regular feedback, I would recommend tracking the progress of goals set up at the beginning of each week/month by identifying three categories: what goals were achieved, what was the key learning from working on the goal, review of mid-term goals and their relevance to potentially changed circumstances.”
Pasha Cherednychenko, a career expert at Amy, with two years of coaching experience and the main area of expertise in Work-Life Balance 

Being consistent: stick to the plan, measure results, and celebrate your success

Be consistent with your career plan and goals-related activities. Practice makes perfect. Acknowledge every achievement, small or big. These wins can provide a sense of accomplishment and encourage you to keep up with the pace, no matter how gradual the progress seems. As the cherry on top, treat yourself to a cherry cake, to celebrate.

When career coaching is more beneficial

While self-coaching offers autonomy, there are moments when working with a professional career coach is more beneficial. You may feel stuck and lack confidence in your job search strategy, like Nick.

In general, if you face any difficulties you cannot handle alone, try guidance from a career expert who will help you throughout the journey. 

“When I think of career coaching, acceleration and dynamic learning come to mind. In my experience,  regular and focused work with the coach creates a sense of urgency and accountability, which is much harder to achieve when you work by yourself.”
Pasha Cherednychenko, a career expert at Amy, with two years of coaching experience and the main area of expertise in Work-Life Balance 

Here’s when it makes sense to collaborate with a career coach:

1. If self-doubt is overwhelming and you can’t cure imposter syndrome, a coach helps boost your confidence as they use evidence-based techniques. This is crucial for Nick as he feels he is underqualified for roles in his goals. A career coach will help him recognize and communicate his strong sides. 
2. If you have assessed your skills and set your goals but still don’t know the next step, a career coach helps you gain clarity. They will ask questions that uncover recurring or hidden patterns in your experiences and provide insights for the future. Nick can’t see why his job search is ineffective. Together with a career coach, they will identify that he is applying for roles that don’t match his skillset and reveal fears holding him back.
3. Motivation to follow your commitments affects the results. Successfully coaching yourself requires the discipline to confront problems on the way. Moreover, you may feel isolated. If you face a particularly tough challenge—like changing a career direction—having a career expert and personalized guidance can make the difference. In Nick’s example, a career coach will help him explore side gigs or transition gradually while maintaining income.
4. We are often too hard on ourselves. We tend to abandon well-being and only focus on achievements, running faster and reaching more. Such an approach results in burnout over time. A career coach can help you escape the harmful, unhealthy cycle of self-criticism and overthinking. You will focus on small, actionable steps rather than jumping into huge tasks that can lead to further anxiety and frustration. By breaking down your goals into manageable parts, you can progress steadily toward your expected results. “A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush,” they say.

The primary benefit of a career coach is the accountability they provide. A career coach ensures you stay on track by holding regular sessions and navigating you through challenges, specifically to revise and follow through with your strategy.

A hybrid approach: self-coaching with professional guidance

Self-coaching and professional coaching don’t have to work in isolation. You have a choice to begin with self-coaching, gain valuable insights through self-reflection, and then turn to a career coach when you hit a roadblock.

A hybrid approach could look like this:

1. Self-coaching to reflect, set initial goals, and start making small changes at work.
2. Collaborating with a career coach when challenges occur, such as financial fears or a lack of confidence in making a change.
3. Returning to self-coaching techniques regularly while using a coach periodically for significant transitions.

Give it a go! Start with career self-coaching

A career coach can highlight what you may not notice, offer an objective view, or give you a hand at a difficult moment. Besides, you can first consider the library of free self-coaching exercises at Amy with timing and expected outcomes after completion. The good news is that we also save your progress on the platform. After all, if you feel confused about your career path, setting goals, and which strategies to implement from the number of resources, professional career coaches are here for you.